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Sunday 1 may 2011 7 01 /05 /May /2011 07:38

I KNOW it's not a race, and I know we're not supposed to all look alike. Crap, this argument only starts because some American Internet users hate when not all of us look like George Lopez! when I see the same ignorance coming from other Hispanics, it REALLY makes me barf, but I'll focus on this first.

 

I have a Costa Rican/Mexican friend who's very Caucasian in looks and doesn't seem comfortable with the thought of having to call herself white. From my experience, most white people could care less what the heck she calls herself, it's these crap-spreading Internet losers giving light-skinned people like her and dark-skinned people like me a hard time. (I don't think people challenge her "authenticity" as much as they challenge mine, though, because she speaks great Spanish and I don't.)

 

My father is Puerto Rican & and my mother is African American. I'll admit that lately I've payed more attention to the former's heritage because it's no freaking secret that I'm black but I have to prove being his daughter -_-. To me, being Puerto Rican doesn't mean I am not or can't be black. But I don't feel that I AM African American like Martin Luther King or Malcom X because of the simple fact that my own mother and a quite a few black I've met don't consider me black. I can barely get away with making a black joke and when it comes to things that blacks consider common knowledge, I may sound like a total noob. I guess it's self-explanatory that I also don't quote-unquote "act black" (who came up with that lame phrase, anyway?) My point is, most black people don't consider me black. They don't care what I call myself as long as I don't act like being black is the worse thing that could happen to someone. So what's the deal with the government trying to tell me what I can and can't say about myself? My only problem with the old way of doing things was that no one could check more than one option. Now people can pick more than one race, but that only seems to work for non-Hispanic people who know their ancestry to the tee.

 

Here's the thing: You can argue about Dominicans being black & Argentinians being white all day long, but MOST Hispanics are biracial or multiracial & there's no immediate way of telling what they are, at least not in a way that would satisfy the government. The USA has always stuffed people into rigid little groups, & I can't see it making an easy transition into the way Latin America describes its people. Of course, it would be pointless to make a big deal of it by taking DNA tests & joining ancestry.com. Saying you're Hispanic is the easiest thing for most Latin Americans in the United States, and if someone doesn't look like the "typical" Mexican mestizo, tough beans.

 

There's more to being "white" or "black" than skin color & geographical origin because race is more of a social construct. "White" and "black" are both boxes that this society tries to shove you into, blinding you to the fact that culture does MUCH more for your identity than freaking skin color! "White" has come to mean you "have" to be one way, and "black" means you have to be the opposite. Since it becomes more and more impossible to lump Latinos together this way as their diversity manifests, you either have a choice of SEEING THEM WITH AN OPEN MIND, or just refusing to call them Latino/Hispanic at all. After all, to see a "black" kid and/or a "white" kid speaking "Mexican" is just too darned confusing for some people!

 

 In fact, you're more likely to make a big deal out of me being half black than any true Puerto Rican would, regardless of what they look like, because in the end I'm a Boricua too, and since it's a Caribbean island, THERE ARE PLENTY OR RICANS THAT LOOK LIKE ME. Case closed. So why can't I also a fellow American at the end of the day since the existence of American blacks is common knowledge? Nothing about my background should say otherwise. Rico's still a US territory and happens to be Americanized in quite a few ways, so I'd be American even if I was 100% Puerto Rican from the island and spoke little English.

 

It depends on what country they're from or whether or not they're foreign-born at all. It also depends on how they've assimilated in America. But my general opinion If you are a white American, you may have more culturally in common with a black American than you do with some random foreigner who happens to be fully Caucasian.  WHETHER ANYONE LIKES IT OR NOT. Because guess what? YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO HAVE GROWN UP THE SAME WAY WITH THE SAME BELIEFS AND CUSTOMS.

 

If America was a former Spanish colony as opposed to an English colony, y'all would understand, because the Spanish forced most of their subjects become part of their society, whereas the English were giving all theirs the proverbial finger. That's why Anglophone countries don't rally around calling themselves Anglo.

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Tuesday 8 march 2011 2 08 /03 /Mar /2011 18:42

... came up while I was reading the news. Why do news websites allow pop-ups?

But today I don't think I can complain.

 

http://www.stansberryresearch.com/pro/1011PSIENDVD/PPSIM202/PR

 

 

You think the gas and oil prices will soar up to five dollars just because of Middle Eastern unrest? According to this video, it's always going to be that high for a very long time now- we might have to pay as much for gas as the Japanese or Norwegians- because one day, other countries won't sell oil for dollars anymore. And that's just one point of the video.

 

This man is not saying anything as crazy as the NWO/Illuminati theories. I'm watching it right now, and so far, he hasn't said anything about the NWO at all. But if there's an NWO, its rise will go hand in hand with a crushed economy.

 

Our entire way of life will change because everything will be unaffordable with the way we live. Necessities will be as expensive as they already are in Europe and Japan. It has me thinking. How do these other countries do it? How do they keep up? How will we survive and save our money? My mother will have to get transferred to a job closer to home. I'll have to go to a closer school so I can ride the bus... and this will be expensive for the bus drivers and truck drivers and people who work for gas stations, etc etc etc.

 

This guy knows what he's talking about because he knows money. Please watch.There's going to be rioting and looting and bootlegging for years... are you ready to change your consumer way of life, America? Are you ready to bum it? Because the best you can do is life as simply as possible and BE SMARTER WITH YOUR MONEY.

 

 

 

 

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Sunday 5 december 2010 7 05 /12 /Dec /2010 00:52

Long time, no see!

 

So, normally if I get a chain mail telling me that I'll die if I don't foward it to ten people or something like that, I ignore it. But this is for a good cause, and if enough people jump in, we might actually bring awareness to an ever-present problem: child abuse. Your friends' statuses may look something like this:

 

     “Change your FB profile picture to a cartoon from your childhood. The goal? To not see a human face on FB until    

       Monday, December 6. Join the fight against child abuse, copy and paste to your status and invite your friends.”

 

“From now until December 7, change your profile picture to a cartoon character from your childhood. The objective of this is not to see any human faces on Facebook but an invasion of memories for the fight against Violence to Children. Remember we were kids too :D.”

 

So bring on the nostalgia!

By Curio - Posted in: Is nothing sacred?!
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Sunday 31 october 2010 7 31 /10 /Oct /2010 16:23

     Stereotypes about groups of people are always being used for comedy or aggrandizement of the self.  One can convince themselves that they are superior to the people they are putting down; when that group is a visible minority or a sore thumb, you can nitpick their flaws (regardless of whether or not they all share them) and pretend that similar things don't happen within the group(s) you belong to.

     At your school there could be a black chick talking back to a teacher and a white girl talking back to a teacher, and the white girl won't be stereotyped by a ignorant bystander unless people have any reason to think she's "white trash". Even then, if she happens to like hanging with blacks, their influence will be to blame. Just look at some of the comments under this story about the Hiccup Girl getting arrested for felony murder. I'm a black Latina, and I swear that earlier this week the racist comments were getting over a dozen thumbs up as opposed to a handful of thumbs down. People got them reported, but the damage is done. Hiccup Girl was hanging with two black guys that are a bit older than her. The half wits don't think she'd be in this mess if it wasn't for her transcending racial lines in her friendships. The only line she shouldn't have crossed was that behind which all the stoners and thugs are. I don't know about your school or job, but not every black or Hispanic kid in my school would fit behind that line!

 

     People wanna say that blacks in America should stop complaining about racism that doesn't exist as strongly as it did before. But it's not non-existent. It's different.It's always been institutionalized, but what I'm saying is that it goes unnoticed. A lot of issues go unnoticed here nowadays. People wanna act like children aren't crying and mothers aren't biting the dust. Racism is one of the things people like to wish away, as it has gone from in-your-face to Ninja Mode. Racist smile in our faces because they know what might happen if they're blatant. But hey. Fox is still allowed to go on with their anti-black filth and Don Imus still has a job, so what are they afraid of? Their "race" have more power than they think, but they themselves could be having fruitless life for all we know.

 

     Next time someone says "I hate [insert group here]", ask them how that's working out for them. :-D Chances are that they're depriving themselves of enriching experiences and that the good in their lives may have nothing to do with our absence. Why hate? You'll just have a deep dark hole swirling around in your soul like diarrhea in a faulty toilet. You're not helping yourselves. I'd tell you where to go but some of you worship Satan, anyway. xD

 

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmNLQu5gkN3JFyOxRwL1asMjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090501134825AAf1vg6

Here's a good question I just found in Yahoo! Answers. Although I don't entirely agree with the premise of the question because black men are always being blamed for thuggish crimes, it received a very good answer.

Q:"Why does it seem that mainstream is more against black women than black men?"

A by "Lost Soul": "The American black woman's struggle has always been over-shadowed by the black man's struggle. What many people don't realize is that in the 100+ years of jim crow racism after the Civil War, black women came to be the protectors and providers in the black families.

Because of white men's hatred and disdain for them black men often couldn't get hired, so black women went out and did the menial jobs they could get to provide for their families. This played hell on the black man's self esteem.

Black men were also the main targets of racist mob and law enforcement framings and lynchings and general abuse and humiliations for the crime of being black. This made black women very protective and defensive of black men and boys, because there was always that fear of losing them to circumstances they were powerless to predict or stop.

Sadly, black women were the target of many of these black men who felt emasculated by white society. Black women bore the brunt of the frustration and anger black men didn't dare take out on their oppressors.

All these things led to the necessity of the black woman's strength and toughness. She had to be strong and tough or she never would have survived and her family and community wouldn't either. That strength has often been praised but it has also led to the stereotype of black women as being coarse and angry. A stereotype that is propagated as much by some black men as by the rest of the world.

It's acceptable for a man to be tough but it's considered unfeminine and undesirable in a woman. That's why black men get more respect in America today than black women.

Add to that the societal and media insistence that only white standards of feminine beauty are acceptable to most, and there you have your answer.

Oddly enough, this is only an American phenomenon. In other countries black women are not viewed as harshly."
[I don't know, but Ive been told that German men think we're hot. xD]
Read your history, folks! Many answers to serious questions about our issues are in our country's history! The past sets up our present, and our present sets up our future! If you don't want to live in an ignorant nation, then you're gonna need to learn more that just Reading, Writing, and 'Rithmetic.
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Tuesday 28 september 2010 2 28 /09 /Sep /2010 03:12

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New Found Glory

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A Day to Remember

Latin For Truth

All Heart

Set Your Goals

Chunk! NO, Captain Chunk!

Can't Bear This Party

The Wonder Years

United We Fall

 

and so much more...

 

http://xeasycorex.blogspot.com/

 

 

http://www.myspace.com/easycorexteam

 

 

 

This is the kind of band I will be in. There's too much conflict and disagreement in other parts of the metalcore, and sometimes, not enough passion and love for the music. THIS is where I wanna be.

 

 

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Sunday 12 september 2010 7 12 /09 /Sep /2010 17:27

    Last night I read Boot Camp by Todd Strasser, author of Give a Boy a Gun and Can't There from Here. It ended sadly for the main character, Garret. I mean, that he was dating a woman 8 years his senior is pretty messed up, but you don't send kids to boot camp for that. Not if becoming a "better person" is equal to becoming a fearful shell.

 

   Mr. Strasser cited many sources in the back of his book, including Project NoSpank. Now I don't know whether to promote this site because I've been spanked before. That alone didn't ruin my life...what would've ruined my life was psychological abuse and physical abuse, the kind that characters in Boot Camp constantly endured until they became what their parents and the staff wanted to see. They couldn't BS and just fake being good...they to become the yes-ma'am-no-ma'am robots, not out of a renewed goodness of the heart, but fear.

 

   It's not just dirty juvenile delinquents going to these camps. It's kids with neuroses that physically only hurt themselves. Kids that have AD/HD, ADD, or just something about them that their parents don't like. L:ike the character Pauly. He was sent to the fictional boot camp Lake Harmony because he's not the jock-like tough guy his father imagined he would be. He's a smart, but skinny and pale dude who cries more easily than Garret. Garret's other friend, Sarah, was sent there because her father, a Mormon pastor, won't allow her to think outside the religious box and have the right to believe something else about life.

 

   I've made a post about private prisons before. Boot camps are one type of such prisons. They get payed to incarcerate whatever kind of kid doesn't meet expectations of society... and literally whip them into shape. It was hard to read how Garret was constantly beaten by his peers, the robotic ones that were doing it to get out of prison. The kids in Lake Harmony wear polo shirts and flip flops; if they try to escape, they are easy to spot and easy to catch. Flip-flops are hard to run in, but some of them have to jog in them for two hours a morning anyway.

 

  These kids that survive and are changed by the camp do not start calling adults sir and ma'am because they really respect them. They are brutally programed by sadistic staff and come out as a surprisingly polite citizen on the outside and a broken creature on the inside... if they don't die like this guy or this guy.

 

  If you look all over this website there are so many instances, so many news stories about kids who have died or have been spiritually destroyed forever in these facilities... and by the time the parents who sent them there find that they've made the wrong decision, it may be too late. Some of the kids that have been ruined in these campsdeserved to go to juvie, but not some gulag.

 

 

 

-An excerpt from an article by Project NoSpank about the slavery-rooted purpose of spanking:

 

   "

The individual, whether child or adult, who can be kept good or

moral through fear or personal suffering only, is a pitiful creature.

His reformation, or his good conduct, is purchased at a price which is

as terrible as it is deplorable. His existence is that of a slave..."

 

 

 

 

I'm not sure I'll even watch this video. I'll cry if I do. But it is the truth.

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